What happening? The year has already finished now now and it was only like yesterday it started. All of you that wrote new year resolutions, I hope you were faithful to it o, because we cannot have another wasted ‘New year, new me’ story.
So I was watching a Nigerian movie (yes, I am very patriotic) recently, and a guy was insisting that his bride to be has to sign a prenup. In my head I’m like ‘Akuko. Will this one work in Nigeria?’ So I decided to bring it before your table to hear what you have to say about it.
This one that love is no more blind, people are now securing their property incase of any future wahala. No more we divorce and you take half of my property. As how na? Is it me and you that were going to farm together? Or doing brick layer together? Your now want to reap where you dinnor sow. If we divorce, it’s to your tent O Israel. Everybody should bear their father’s name.
Most Nigerian girls will not agree to sign a prenup. Just imagine now, after you have proposed with a huge diamond ring, you will now bring paper and say it is marriage contract, incase of divorce.
Na you go still suffer last last. She will blackmail you emotionally ehnn, go through the whole trust issue lane. Some of them might honestly love you and feel bad about the idea, some might just be acting the script out for you. But except you’re in the abroad, where these things happen, you will tear the contract by yourself, beg her and still buy gift to apologize, maybe car sef.
Personally, I think signing a prenup shouldn’t be a problem, if you’re honestly faithful to the relationship. Plus everyone should have their own hustle sef, so that incase yawa gas, you can still bear your father’s name without hawking pure water. If you’re doing joint business and owning joint account with your spouse, better be smart. I am not trying to put asunder in your relationship o, all I am saying is that you should shine your eyes. Wives still dey dupe husbands. Everybody be a signatory to your own account.
What do you think about prenups tho? Please leave a comment and don’t forget to subscribe too. That’s all folks. ✌🏽️✌🏽.
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